Romney's Vision of the Afterlife

I used to think Romney's religion was a non-issue, but that was before I found out he believed in parents making their kids straight from beyond the grave:

“And I believe that the development of children is enhanced by having a male and a female as part of their upbringing in their home. Even when there's a divorce, you still have a mom and a dad. And even where one member of the partnership may pass away, the memory and the characteristics of that gender, of that partner influence the development of a child.”

Also does that mean if you are straight married, then one parent dies and the other gets gay married, then it's ok? IS ROMNEY ENCOURAGING THE GAYS TO KILL???????